Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to go all out for your partner—because let’s be real, they deserve something more than a last-minute box of chocolates from the checkout aisle. Whether you’re shopping for your long-time love or someone new and special, the key to the perfect Valentine’s gift is thoughtfulness. Something personal, something unexpected, something that makes them feel loved and appreciated.
Not sure where to start? No worries—I’ve got you covered! Here are 7 Valentine’s Day gifts your partner will absolutely love.
1. A Boudoir Photo Album (the Ultimate Surprise)
If you want to give your partner a gift that is equal parts intimate, unforgettable, and totally jaw-dropping, a boudoir photo album is THE THING. Imagine their face when they unwrap a beautifully curated album filled with stunning, sensual images of you. Not only will they cherish the photos forever, but the experience of having a boudoir session is also an incredible confidence boost for you—so really, this is a gift for both of you. I've been photographing clients for over 8 years and I've never heard of a partner upset about getting an album full of booty pics!
Bonus: If your shoot is booked for after Valentine’s Day, you can still gift them a sneak peek by wearing the lingerie you bought for the session or a handwritten note letting them know something special is coming their way.
2. A Romantic Getaway
Sometimes, the best gift isn’t a thing—it’s an experience. Surprise your partner with a romantic weekend away, whether it’s a cozy cabin in the woods, a luxury staycation in your city, or a tropical getaway for some much-needed sunshine. As a Wisconsinite in the middle of February, a weekend away somewhere warm would be a dream come true! A change of scenery, quality time, and new memories? That’s a recipe for the best Valentine’s Day ever.
Pro Tip: If you’re feeling extra romantic, plan out a few surprise activities—a spa day, a candlelit dinner, or even just a quiet morning with coffee in bed and no alarms.
3. A Love Letter (or a Year’s Worth of Them!)
In a world full of texts and emojis, a handwritten love letter is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give. My parents had a card that they wrote notes to one another in and exchanged it back and forth each year. How cute!
Take a few moments to write down what you love most about your partner, your favorite memories together, and your hopes for the future. If you want to take it to the next level, write 52 notes—one for each week of the year—and let them open a new one every Sunday.
Pro Tip: If writing isn’t your thing, you can still make this super special by creating a “Reasons I Love You” jar filled with little notes for your partner to pull out anytime they need a reminder of how much they mean to you. My husband is a poker player, and I did something similar but on a deck of cards to pay homage to his hobby.
4. A Customized Star Map
Want to commemorate a special moment in your relationship? A customized star map captures the way the night sky looked on a specific date and location—like the night you met, your first kiss, or your wedding day. It’s a sentimental and totally unique gift that your partner will love displaying in your home. I have one in my home and love it (although it didn't come from my husband! It was a 1 year wedding anniversary gift from my best friend and I adore how much thought she put into making something for me and my husband.)
Bonus Idea: Pair this with a little note that says, “I’d choose you in any universe.” (Yeah, I’m a sucker for romance. GIVE ME THE ROMANTIC CHEESINESS - like I said, I'm from Wisconsin.)
5. A “Choose Your Own Adventure” Date Night
If you’re someone who struggles to come up with date night ideas, this is your perfect solution. Instead of picking just one plan for Valentine’s Day, create a “date night deck” of cards with different experiences on them—fancy dinner, cooking at home, ice skating, a cozy movie night, a spontaneous road trip. Let your partner draw a card and make it a tradition to do a new one every month.
Pro Tip: You can even add in some “spicy” options to keep things interesting. Wink wink.
6. A Meaningful Piece of Jewelry
Jewelry is always a classic Valentine’s Day gift, but it’s even better when it’s personal. Instead of picking something random from a jewelry store (I'm looking at you, heart shaped jewelry from the mall!), opt for something that has real meaning—a piece engraved with a special date, coordinates of a place that means a lot to you both, or a charm that represents an inside joke or shared memory. I recently had a client who's necklace was a unique shape. When I asked her about it, she told me it was the route she and her fiancé drove on their first date. I about died from the cuteness of that.
Pro Tip: If you want to go the extra mile, pair the jewelry with a heartfelt note explaining why you chose that specific piece.
7. A Couples' Spa Experience
Nothing says “I love you” like a day of relaxation. Book a couples' spa day where you can both unwind with massages, facials, and time together in a peaceful setting. If you can’t make it to a spa, no worries—you can create an at-home spa experience with candles, massage oil, face masks, and a warm bubble bath. My husband had never been to a spa before, but a few months ago we booked a couples massage and he LOVED it.
Pro Tip: If you really want to impress your partner, plan a whole evening around this—think cozy robes, a playlist of relaxing music, and a glass of wine or champagne to toast to your love.
Which Gift Will You Choose?
Whether you go for something sentimental, experiential, or a little bit spicy (hi, boudoir photos!), the best Valentine’s Day gifts come from the heart. So, which of these ideas are you stealing this year? And if you need even more ideas, check out the Babe Bulletin Podcast episode "5 Romantic Date Ideas."
And if you’re ready to gift your partner the most unforgettable surprise ever (ahem, boudoir portraits), let’s make it happen! Reach out to schedule your boudoir session today, and let’s create something gorgeous together.
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